OUTSIDE YOUR WORLD

"It is a big world, don't give up just now!"

"What a big world it is?"

"It's not the end of the world"

You must have heard a few of these, but is it true? In our chaotic everyday life, with a 9-5 job or regular chores, is our world really as enormous and exciting as we once imagined it to be? Do we really exist in this universe for a meaning? What difference would it make if I wasn't here?

You might have heard something called "the butterfly effect", it is the idea that small things can have non-linear impacts on a complex system. The concept is imagined with a butterfly flapping its wings and causing a typhoon. So guess what, we will help in a typhoon after all.

Many people live in a small world, confined to themselves or just a few people. Some are introverts, loners, nervous-wreck, socio-phobic or just hurt. Or maybe too independent to be with someone. For a certain period of time it is very peaceful, to just be with yourself, and let the time heal our wounds, work on your failures, skills etc. The productive kind of solitary is really healthy and can help you achieve everything you aspire to be..

With a boon comes a bane, roses have thorns so hold your horses and listen, being solitary is productive but it kills you too.

Yep, there it is, IT KILLS YOU. How, you ask? Since science is something logical and acceptable by most of the community, here is a psychological fact for you: "Being alone for a long time is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day."

Now the question rises...Why?? Why is it important to be with toxic and all kinds of weird people when you can live in peace just with your own self. You will not have to expect anything from anyone, you will be free, nothing and no one can limit you. My, my isn't this dreamy?

No, the truth (which you would realize sooner or later) is that people need people. Because it's people who instigate emotions in a person. To hate, ignore, despise, gossip, fear, love, prejudice, take revenge, achieve success, be happy, confuse, make a fool of yourself, be stupid. You need a driving force because these moments of uncertainty and confusion is what makes us human. Cutting off yourself from the world, being isolated from everyone will kill you slowly and steadily.

I am an independent person myself, and I don't feel the need of having toxic people in life, so what is the way to explore this big world, without toxic people? The honest answer is that you can't. You have to face them probably at every point of life, these pricks also motivate though. All you can do is ignore and stay away from negative people.

"The world is enormously diverse and huge if we want to explore and just a few people if we want to live with peace."

But you need to know that, your world is what YOU make it. You can change the world by being YOURSELF. So, create yourself smartly. You only live once, eh? And you haven't even seen one percent of the people, nature, cultures, languages, food, dances, songs, cars etc. of the whole world. It's never too late!!

"World sees you just as a person but maybe a person sees the world in you."